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Boundary Essentials for Neurodiverse Couples – Part 2
Resistance to Setting and Respecting Boundaries By Barbara Grant, MMFT, CAS, NCC In a neurodiverse marriage, BOTH partners need to...
Dan Holmes
Mar 27, 2025


Embracing Joy Together: How The 30 Days of Joy Can Strengthen Neurodiverse Christian Couples
By Stephanie and Dan Holmes We’re excited to share our thoughts on a wonderful devotional resource we recently revisited together: The 30...
Dan Holmes
Mar 20, 2025


How to Spot Codependency in Neurodiverse Relationships
Guest Blog: Reprinted with Permission Author: Jodi Carlton, MEd January 22, 2025 codependency , codependency in neurodiverse...
Dan Holmes
Mar 13, 2025


Embracing Grace: Reflecting on The Face of Grace by Ed Khouri and Its Impact on Neurodiverse Relationships
Author: Dr. Stephanie C. Holmes Grace is a word with deep roots in many faith traditions and cultural contexts; it implies unmerited...
Dan Holmes
Mar 7, 2025


Boundary Essentials for Neurodiverse Couples – Part 1
Practical Advice for Setting and Communicating Healthy Limits By Barbara Grant, MMFT, CAS, NCC In a neurodiverse marriage, BOTH partners...
Dan Holmes
Feb 28, 2025


Embracing Your Unique Connection: Insights from Uniquely Us
by Rev. Dr. Stephanie Holmes & Rev. Dan Holmes, MS In the journey of love and marriage, every couple faces challenges. For neurodiverse...
Dan Holmes
Feb 21, 2025


Valentines is indeed a made up holiday
By Dan Holmes And 'holiday' is a strong word. 'Observance' is probably more accurate. It comes with all the commercial trappings and...
Dan Holmes
Feb 14, 2025


Is This Autism or Narcissism?
Guest Blogger:Neurodiverse Relationship Expert, Jodi Carlton, MEd When it comes to understanding the complexities of human behavior, it’s...
dan1852
Feb 7, 2025


Understanding – and Overcoming – The “Cassandra Syndrome”
by Barbara Grant, MMFT, CAS, NDCC If you do a quick Google search on Cassandra Syndrome , you're going to find reference to the Cassandra...
Dan Holmes
Jan 31, 2025


Do You Hear God In the Hard? Do You Even Search For Him?
By Rev. Iris Knapp In the early 1990's my life started to fall apart. I discovered my minister/husband had become addicted and my life as...
Dan Holmes
Jan 24, 2025


Healing from Past Hurts of Your NeuroDiverse Marriage: Renovating the Heart and Living from the Heart Jesus Gave youPart 2
Dr. Stephanie C. Holmes, based on the books Renovated and Living from the Heart Jesus Gave You by Dr. Wilder A key theme in Renovated...
dan1852
Jan 17, 2025


How to Build a Thriving Marriage as You Care for Children with Disabilities
Kristin Faith Evans and Todd Evans Shortly after our daughter with severe disabilities came home from the neonatal intensive care unit,...
dan1852
Jan 10, 2025


Building Emotional Resilience: Insights from "Bounce" by Marcus Warner
Emotional resilience is the ability to bounce back from adversity, to face challenges with strength and clarity, and to thrive in the...
dan1852
Jan 3, 2025


Navigating Parenting in a Neurodiverse Family: A Fruit-Filled Perspective
Summary of Jeremy & Charity’s Rochford Chapter 10 in Uniquely US As we’ve walked through this chapter together, I’m sure you’ve noticed...
dan1852
Dec 27, 2024


Still Together Yet Worlds Apart at Christmas
Author: Neurtoype Wife, Mary Gable (Pseudonym) I love Christmas because I relish wonder. It doesn’t take much more than dirty shepherds...
dan1852
Dec 20, 2024


A "taste and see" moment - beauty from ashes
Dan Holmes (and thoughts from Stephanie in bold italics) The other night we (Stephanie and I) had a highly volatile argument. It was an...
dan1852
Dec 13, 2024


Renovating Your Heart and Mind: Character Maturity and Identity Formation Based on Renovated by Dr. Wilder
Dr. Stephanie C. Holmes Renovating a home involves tearing down walls, exposing hidden foundations, and rebuilding to create something...
dan1852
Dec 6, 2024


One Man’s Aspie Traits and Verbal Communication
Greg Reller My Wife (Carol, author of the communication chapter in the Uniquely Us book about neurodivergent marriages) is a...
dan1852
Nov 29, 2024


Steering Our Lives: The Power of Focus and the Path We Follow
Dan Holmes In the world of motorcycling, there’s a phenomenon known as “target fixation.” It’s a simple yet profound reality: as a rider,...
dan1852
Nov 22, 2024


Becoming Uniquely U: Navigating Marriage as a Neurodiverse Christian Couple - Part 2 of 2
Dan & Stephanie Holmes, Authors of Uniquely Us and NeuroDiverse Christian Couple Continued from our last blog, we explore aspects of...
dan1852
Nov 15, 2024
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