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Lashing Yourself to the Helm: When Love Gets Hard in a Neurodiverse Marriage
By Dan Holmes In a neurodiverse marriage, there are seasons when love feels like light—clear, warming, present. And there are seasons...
Dan Holmes
2 days ago
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When Local Is Global: Seeing Through Her Eyes in a Neurodiverse Marriage
By Dan Holmes In the book of Genesis, we read of God’s breathtaking acts: • The creation of the heavens and the earth • The formation of...
Dan Holmes
Jun 6
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Divorce, Separation and Christianity: Breaking the Stigma
By Barbara Grant, MMFT, NDCC, CAS (www.Bg-HC.com) For many in the church, divorce remains one of the most stigmatized experiences a...
Dan Holmes
May 30
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Breaking Fear Bonds in Yourself and Marriage
Dr. Stephanie C. Holmes In the journey of spiritual growth and personal transformation, understanding the dynamics of our emotional bonds...
Dan Holmes
May 23
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Escaping C.H.A.O.S. to Share the Mental Load in Your NeuroDiverse Marriage
By Jeremy Rochford If we're being honest, being a part of a mixed NeuroType (Adhd/ADD/Autism) family can be a little chaotic. And...
Dan Holmes
May 16
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Autism and Covert Narcissism in Relationships: 8 Real-Life Examples
Reprinted Blog with Permission: Jodi Carlton, MEd August 21, 2024 autism and covert narcissism , Neurodiverse Relationships , ...
Dan Holmes
May 9
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Order, Integrity, and the Image of God: A Foundation for Neurodiverse Marriage
By Dan Holmes When we look at the opening chapter of the Bible—Genesis 1—we often debate the details: How long were the days? What about...
Dan Holmes
May 2
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What is Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria? (and why are Rejection, Blame &; Shame such BIG PROBLEMS in ND Marriage?)
By Barbara Grant, MMFT, ND Couples’ Coach Many ND people (both ASD and ADHD) report struggles with a painful sense of rejection, which...
Dan Holmes
Apr 25
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Sheltered
Author:Mary Gable (Pseudonym) I last wrote about my new Christmas plan—the one where I exited my home the night before Christmas Eve so...
Dan Holmes
Apr 18
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Not In A Million Years: A story of Ministry & Divorce- a call to STOP!
Guest Blogger: Jenilee Rachel https://jenileerachel.com/ I’ve been sensing that it’s time to write and share more about the changes that...
Dan Holmes
Apr 11
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Reflecting on the Dismantling of the Department of Education as a Mother whose child required an IEP and Autism Researcher
Dr. Stephanie Homes As a mother of a twice-exceptional child—gifted with a brilliant IQ yet navigating the challenges of an autism...
Dan Holmes
Apr 4
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Boundary Essentials for Neurodiverse Couples – Part 2
Resistance to Setting and Respecting Boundaries By Barbara Grant, MMFT, CAS, NCC In a neurodiverse marriage, BOTH partners need to...
Dan Holmes
Mar 28
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Embracing Joy Together: How The 30 Days of Joy Can Strengthen Neurodiverse Christian Couples
By Stephanie and Dan Holmes We’re excited to share our thoughts on a wonderful devotional resource we recently revisited together: The 30...
Dan Holmes
Mar 21
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How to Spot Codependency in Neurodiverse Relationships
Guest Blog: Reprinted with Permission Author: Jodi Carlton, MEd January 22, 2025 codependency , codependency in neurodiverse...
Dan Holmes
Mar 14
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Embracing Grace: Reflecting on The Face of Grace by Ed Khouri and Its Impact on Neurodiverse Relationships
Author: Dr. Stephanie C. Holmes Grace is a word with deep roots in many faith traditions and cultural contexts; it implies unmerited...
Dan Holmes
Mar 7
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Boundary Essentials for Neurodiverse Couples – Part 1
Practical Advice for Setting and Communicating Healthy Limits By Barbara Grant, MMFT, CAS, NCC In a neurodiverse marriage, BOTH partners...
Dan Holmes
Feb 28
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Embracing Your Unique Connection: Insights from Uniquely Us
by Rev. Dr. Stephanie Holmes & Rev. Dan Holmes, MS In the journey of love and marriage, every couple faces challenges. For neurodiverse...
Dan Holmes
Feb 21
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Valentines is indeed a made up holiday
By Dan Holmes And 'holiday' is a strong word. 'Observance' is probably more accurate. It comes with all the commercial trappings and...
Dan Holmes
Feb 14
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Is This Autism or Narcissism?
Guest Blogger:Neurodiverse Relationship Expert, Jodi Carlton, MEd When it comes to understanding the complexities of human behavior, it’s...
dan1852
Feb 7
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Understanding – and Overcoming – The “Cassandra Syndrome”
by Barbara Grant, MMFT, CAS, NDCC If you do a quick Google search on Cassandra Syndrome , you're going to find reference to the Cassandra...
Dan Holmes
Jan 31
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