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Title: What “Surfing for God” Taught Me About My Online Habits
By Dan Holmes I didn’t expect such thought-provoking inner dialogue from a book with the word “pornography” in the subtitle. But Surfing...
Dan Holmes
1 day ago


The Hidden Wounds of Betrayal Trauma: When Love Meets Sexual Secrets
Author: Dr. Stephanie C. Holmes Introduction: Betrayal trauma is a term often associated with the devastating emotional and...
Dan Holmes
Aug 8


Understanding the Connection: Autism, Porn Addiction & Sex Addiction
Stephanie's Interview with Candice Christiansen Last year when I did a podcast series on the connection between porn or sex addiction and...
Dan Holmes
Aug 1


Breaking Free: How to Resolve Guilt and Shame in NeuroDiverse Relationships
BY BARBARA GRANT, MMFT, NDCC, CAS (July 5, 2025) Shame is a silent destroyer. It slips into our identity, burrows deep in the soul, and...
Dan Holmes
Jul 25


Pastors, Christian Counselors, Christian Leadership: Please Do Not Say These Things
Guest Author: Rev. Jenilee Goodwin, Life Coach Through life coaching, along with helping women in many areas of personal growth, goals,...
Dan Holmes
Jul 18


From Different Worlds to One Shared Journey: How Travel Became Our Bridge
By Stephanie & Dan Stephanie: When I was in fourth grade, my teacher gave our class a challenge: get to know the world you live in by...
Dan Holmes
Jul 11


Driving With a Disability: A Guide to Safer, Smarter Independence on the Road
Guest Blogger : Anthony Bennett For millions of people with disabilities, the ability to drive isn’t just about getting from point A to...
Dan Holmes
Jul 4


Attachment Issues in Christian Neurodiverse Marriages
By Barbara Grant, MMFT, NDCC, CAS In Christian marriage, relational attachment is meant to reflect the deep, sacrificial love of...
Dan Holmes
Jun 27


When Abuse is Death by a Thousand Cuts
Rev. Jenilee Goodwin, Master Life Coach According to wikipedia , the concept of death by a thousand cuts was started as a form of torture...
Dan Holmes
Jun 20


Lashing Yourself to the Helm: When Love Gets Hard in a Neurodiverse Marriage
By Dan Holmes In a neurodiverse marriage, there are seasons when love feels like light—clear, warming, present. And there are seasons...
Dan Holmes
Jun 13


When Local Is Global: Seeing Through Her Eyes in a Neurodiverse Marriage
By Dan Holmes In the book of Genesis, we read of God’s breathtaking acts: • The creation of the heavens and the earth • The formation of...
Dan Holmes
Jun 6


Divorce, Separation and Christianity: Breaking the Stigma
By Barbara Grant, MMFT, NDCC, CAS (www.Bg-HC.com) For many in the church, divorce remains one of the most stigmatized experiences a...
Dan Holmes
May 30


Breaking Fear Bonds in Yourself and Marriage
Dr. Stephanie C. Holmes In the journey of spiritual growth and personal transformation, understanding the dynamics of our emotional bonds...
Dan Holmes
May 23


Escaping C.H.A.O.S. to Share the Mental Load in Your NeuroDiverse Marriage
By Jeremy Rochford If we're being honest, being a part of a mixed NeuroType (Adhd/ADD/Autism) family can be a little chaotic. And...
Dan Holmes
May 16


Autism and Covert Narcissism in Relationships: 8 Real-Life Examples
Reprinted Blog with Permission: Jodi Carlton, MEd August 21, 2024 autism and covert narcissism , Neurodiverse Relationships , ...
Dan Holmes
May 9


Order, Integrity, and the Image of God: A Foundation for Neurodiverse Marriage
By Dan Holmes When we look at the opening chapter of the Bible—Genesis 1—we often debate the details: How long were the days? What about...
Dan Holmes
May 2


What is Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria? (and why are Rejection, Blame &; Shame such BIG PROBLEMS in ND Marriage?)
By Barbara Grant, MMFT, ND Couples’ Coach Many ND people (both ASD and ADHD) report struggles with a painful sense of rejection, which...
Dan Holmes
Apr 25


Sheltered
Author:Mary Gable (Pseudonym) I last wrote about my new Christmas plan—the one where I exited my home the night before Christmas Eve so...
Dan Holmes
Apr 18


Not In A Million Years: A story of Ministry & Divorce- a call to STOP!
Guest Blogger: Jenilee Rachel https://jenileerachel.com/ I’ve been sensing that it’s time to write and share more about the changes that...
Dan Holmes
Apr 11


Reflecting on the Dismantling of the Department of Education as a Mother whose child required an IEP and Autism Researcher
Dr. Stephanie Homes As a mother of a twice-exceptional child—gifted with a brilliant IQ yet navigating the challenges of an autism...
Dan Holmes
Apr 4
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