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Breaking Free: How to Resolve Guilt and Shame in NeuroDiverse Relationships
BY BARBARA GRANT, MMFT, NDCC, CAS (July 5, 2025) Shame is a silent destroyer. It slips into our identity, burrows deep in the soul, and...
Dan Holmes
Sep 25, 2025


How Filipino Culture Treats People With ASD: Navigating Autism as an Adult without Many Resources Pt 2 of 2
Guest Blogger: Job Brisby Eloja How that culture has affected me It’s exactly as I said above. This abusive culture has caused me to...
Dan Holmes
Sep 18, 2025


How Filipino Culture Treats People With ASD: Navigating Autism as an Adult without Many Resources Pt 1 of 2
Guest Blogger: Job Brisby Eloja Imagine living in a world that you grew up in but feels like you don’t belong there. Everyone thinks...
Dan Holmes
Sep 11, 2025


Alexithymia, Mind-blindness & Sexual Dysfunction in ASD-NT Marriages Pt.3 of 3
Guest Blogger: Autism Effect on Marriage Used with Permission The Role of Alexithymia & Mind-blindness in Marital Sexual Dysfunction As...
Dan Holmes
Sep 4, 2025


Alexithymia, Mind-blindness & Sexual Dysfunction in ASD-NT Marriages Pt.2 of 3
Guest Blogger: Autism Effect on Marriage Used with Permission The Sexual Discard dynamic will be discussed in a different post. What does...
Dan Holmes
Aug 28, 2025


Alexithymia, Mind-blindness & Sexual Dysfunction in ASD-NT Marriages Pt.1 of 3
Guest Blogger: Autism Effect on Marriage Used with Permission Physical intimacy within a neurodiverse marriage is often problematic....
Dan Holmes
Aug 21, 2025


Title: What “Surfing for God” Taught Me About My Online Habits
By Dan Holmes I didn’t expect such thought-provoking inner dialogue from a book with the word “pornography” in the subtitle. But Surfing...
Dan Holmes
Aug 14, 2025


The Hidden Wounds of Betrayal Trauma: When Love Meets Sexual Secrets
Author: Dr. Stephanie C. Holmes Introduction: Betrayal trauma is a term often associated with the devastating emotional and...
Dan Holmes
Aug 7, 2025


Understanding the Connection: Autism, Porn Addiction & Sex Addiction
Stephanie's Interview with Candice Christiansen Last year when I did a podcast series on the connection between porn or sex addiction and...
Dan Holmes
Jul 31, 2025


Breaking Free: How to Resolve Guilt and Shame in NeuroDiverse Relationships
BY BARBARA GRANT, MMFT, NDCC, CAS (July 5, 2025) Shame is a silent destroyer. It slips into our identity, burrows deep in the soul, and...
Dan Holmes
Jul 24, 2025


Pastors, Christian Counselors, Christian Leadership: Please Do Not Say These Things
Guest Author: Rev. Jenilee Goodwin, Life Coach Through life coaching, along with helping women in many areas of personal growth, goals,...
Dan Holmes
Jul 17, 2025


From Different Worlds to One Shared Journey: How Travel Became Our Bridge
By Stephanie & Dan Stephanie: When I was in fourth grade, my teacher gave our class a challenge: get to know the world you live in by...
Dan Holmes
Jul 10, 2025


Driving With a Disability: A Guide to Safer, Smarter Independence on the Road
Guest Blogger : Anthony Bennett For millions of people with disabilities, the ability to drive isn’t just about getting from point A to...
Dan Holmes
Jul 3, 2025


Attachment Issues in Christian Neurodiverse Marriages
By Barbara Grant, MMFT, NDCC, CAS In Christian marriage, relational attachment is meant to reflect the deep, sacrificial love of...
Dan Holmes
Jun 26, 2025


When Abuse is Death by a Thousand Cuts
Rev. Jenilee Goodwin, Master Life Coach According to wikipedia , the concept of death by a thousand cuts was started as a form of torture...
Dan Holmes
Jun 19, 2025


Lashing Yourself to the Helm: When Love Gets Hard in a Neurodiverse Marriage
By Dan Holmes In a neurodiverse marriage, there are seasons when love feels like light—clear, warming, present. And there are seasons...
Dan Holmes
Jun 13, 2025


When Local Is Global: Seeing Through Her Eyes in a Neurodiverse Marriage
By Dan Holmes In the book of Genesis, we read of God’s breathtaking acts: • The creation of the heavens and the earth • The formation of...
Dan Holmes
Jun 5, 2025


Divorce, Separation and Christianity: Breaking the Stigma
By Barbara Grant, MMFT, NDCC, CAS (www.Bg-HC.com) For many in the church, divorce remains one of the most stigmatized experiences a...
Dan Holmes
May 30, 2025


Breaking Fear Bonds in Yourself and Marriage
Dr. Stephanie C. Holmes In the journey of spiritual growth and personal transformation, understanding the dynamics of our emotional bonds...
Dan Holmes
May 23, 2025


Escaping C.H.A.O.S. to Share the Mental Load in Your NeuroDiverse Marriage
By Jeremy Rochford If we're being honest, being a part of a mixed NeuroType (Adhd/ADD/Autism) family can be a little chaotic. And...
Dan Holmes
May 15, 2025
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