Scrutinizing the Obvious: What Packing Glass Taught Me About Wisdom

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By Rev. Dan Holmes, Master Life Coach; NeuroDiverse Marriage Coach

I was loading tempered glass shelves into the back of a truck for a drive from Atlanta to Charlotte. Nothing spiritual about it. Just one of those ordinary, slightly stressful tasks where you know that if you get it wrong, you’ll hear a very distinct sound somewhere on I-85.

My first instinct was immediate and obvious: Stand the glass on its edge.

That’s how professionals transport glass. I’ve seen the trucks. I’ve watched installers unload sheets of glass from vertical racks like oversized books.

The rule felt settled.

But I also noticed space under the table. The glass would fit exactly there and be bound on both sides by the table legs. But I was unsure of the safety of this. Spatially it fit, but it felt unsound.

From Rules to Reality

Standing glass up vertically isn’t magic. It isn’t tradition for tradition’s sake. It’s a solution to specific problems: vibration, edge stress, flex, and shock. Professionals aren’t obeying a rule — they’re respecting physics.

Once I stopped copying the pattern and started asking why the pattern existed, the situation changed. I noticed something else obvious, but overlooked: I had space under the table I was transporting. I had padding. I had cardboard. I had flexible materials that could absorb shock. I had constraints and options that the professional glass truck didn’t.

So instead of asking, “What do professionals do?”

I started asking, “What actually breaks glass?”

That question changed everything.

The Ordinary Work of Wisdom

What followed wasn’t clever. It wasn’t elegant. It was iterative.

Glass on edge, then flat, then back to leaning. Cardboard as a sleeve.

Boogie boards against the truck bed. Tennis balls to create compliance.

Cornhole bean bags under the edges. A strap added — but deliberately not tightened.

Nothing about this felt profound. It felt practical. Attentive. Slow.

But that’s when a line from The Divine Conspiracy by Dallas Willard came back to me. He defines genius not as brilliance or novelty, but as “Scrutinizing the obvious.”

That line has stayed with me, and it showed up in this moment as well. Not because it sounds clever, but because it quietly raises the bar. The obvious is easy to follow. It’s harder to examine.

This is what scrutinizing the obvious looks like in real life.

It’s not having the right answer immediately.

It’s refusing to let the first answer be the final one.

The Spiritual Parallel Hiding in Plain Sight

Most of life works this way. We inherit patterns that look like ways of reacting, coping, and relating. Ways of believing. Some of them come from people who knew what they were doing. Some come from people who didn’t. Many come from situations that no longer exist.

The obvious move is to repeat them.

The harder move — the one Willard is pointing toward — is to ask:

· What problem was this meant to solve?· Does it still solve that problem here?· What happens if the context has changed but the rule hasn’t?

That kind of scrutiny takes patience. It takes humility. It takes a willingness to look a little foolish while you refine.

But it’s how wisdom forms — not in abstractions, but in the everyday doing of life.

From Objects to People

Nothing about packing glass made me wiser.

What mattered was the posture it required:

· slowing down· paying attention to what causes damage· questioning inherited rules without dismissing their wisdom· adjusting how I acted based on what was truly at stake

That posture doesn’t stay in a truck bed.

Because the truth is, most of the damage we do to one another doesn’t come from bad intentions. It comes from unexamined habits. From applying rules where understanding was needed. From copying patterns that once worked somewhere else, with someone else, and assuming they’ll work here too.

People, like glass, rarely break because of one big blow.

They break at the edges — through repeated stress, vibration, and being handled without enough care.

Scrutinizing the obvious in relationships looks like noticing:

· when a familiar response is increasing stress instead of reducing it· when “this is how I’ve always done it” is standing in for curiosity· when restraint is needed instead of pressure· when safety matters more than efficiency

Attention to things trains attention to people only if we let it. We have to practice the same curiosity when the ‘material’ is human.

Only if we carry the same humility from objects into relationships — the willingness to ask why before insisting on how.

Sometimes genius doesn’t look like insight at all.

Sometimes it looks like slowing down long enough to realize that what you’re handling — glass or a human being — deserves more care than the rule you were about to apply. For the curious, here’s some of the evolution of the packing process.

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